CHABAD.ORG MAGAZINE: Tu B'Shevat, Convert to Marry? (and more...)

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Shevat 14, 5772 · February 7, 2012
Editor's Note:

The snow still covers the trees (at least where I live). Israel is about halfway through its rainy season, and the trees there are barely beginning to blossom. And yet, strangely enough, this week we will celebrate Tu B'Shevat, the New Year of the trees. We will eat fruits, particularly fruits with which Israel has been blessed, none of which are yet in season.

Wouldn't it be more appropriate to celebrate this holiday when the trees are heavy with ripe fruit?

The Torah teaches that "man is [like] the tree of the field" (Deut. 20:19). To grow a tiny seed into a flourishing tree takes patience and effort. In life, too, we who often toil hard and long may despair of ever seeing the fruits of our labors.

On Tu B'Shevat, when the trees have barely begun to bud, we take a ripe fruit, make a blessing and then eat it. In the process, we remind ourselves that the sweetest fruits are all contained within the smallest seeds.

As difficult as it may sometimes be to envision, the seeds of our efforts will yet blossom into sweet, ripe fruit.

Rabbi Yehuda Shurpin,
Responder for Ask the Rabbi @ Chabad.org


This Week's Features Printable Magazine
Celebrating Trees - Tu B'Shevat
Learn how to conduct a Tu B'Shevat seder according to the custom of the Safed Kabbalists.

By Yerachmiel Tilles
I'm a work in progress, unfinished business. I'm willing to learn and dedicated to growth, but I'm not there yet . . .

By Elisha Greenbaum
He struggled daily with the hardheaded farmer boys who were his students, for they would rather roam the countryside than learn . . .

By Gershon Kranzler
When's the last time you wished a tree Happy New Year? The 15th day of the Hebrew month of Shevat is a great opportunity.

Learn more about the meaning of Tu B'Shevat, and some of the health and healing properties of the fruits mentioned in Deuteronomy: "wheat, barley, grapes, fig, pomegranates, oil-yielding olives and [date] honey."

By Daniel Wasserman
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Celebrating Marriage
"Relationship Rabbi" Chay Amar explains to Jewish singles why you never really know yourself until you get married.

By Chay Amar
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Both love and awe are necessary ingredients to develop a holistic relationship.

by Chana Slavaticki
I am in the process of an Orthodox conversion to marry the man I love. I am now living a wonderful observant life, but my fiancé is not interested in living in such a way . . .

Answered by Sara Esther Crispe
Celebrating Families
One of your children may be particularly neat, while another might be highly creative. Contrasting the two is not only unfair; it can be destructive.

By Chana Weisberg
I have two weeks left. That isn't a lot of time to plant a tree and make it grow fifty different branches. I'm planting it for the woman sitting next to me . . .

By Rucheli Manville
Celebrating Humility
The gateway to tolerance is humility; but humility must be tempered with healthy and guarded self-assurance.

By Chana Weisberg
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Be small, accomplish big things, enjoy life.

By Tzvi Freeman
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In the time of King Solomon, there lived a young shepherd by the name of Barzilai. He was a dreamer. He dreamed of strange adventures as his eyes followed silvery clouds to the distant horizon . . .

By Gershon Kranzler
Yitro: We Get the Big 10
G‑d writes a book, Moses argues with angels, Egyptian is spoken at Sinai, the Ten Commandments are set in parallel stones, and the Torah is given to Israel . . .

There was a time when there were not three paragraphs in the prayer we call the Shema, but four . . .

By Rabbi Jonathan Sacks
When embarking on any new endeavor, there is an understandable tendency to either panic with terror or to act overconfidently, both of which lead to inevitable disaster.

By Elisha Greenbaum
Understand how we draw the Ten Commandments of Torah into the Ten Utterances of Creation, and why the revelation at Sinai is the basis for our belief in Moses.

By Chaim Miller
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The Torah Reality
We live on a miniscule speck of dust floating around in the infinite void we call the universe. Where are we? What does it all mean? Why are we here? What, if anything, are we supposed to do?

By Yaakov Brawer
What is the true definition of faith? How does believing differ from knowing? Are there logical proofs for the belief in G‑d and in the divine origins of the Torah?

By Yehuda Leib Schapiro
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Even while he sits at the supper table, a careful look at the businessman's expression, at the thoughtfulness in his eyes, reveals that the affairs of his business are very much on his mind . . .

By Yitschak Meir Kagan
Transformational Visits
Most of the time, a short visit is preferable. One needs to take the status and the desires of the sick person into considerations.

By Eliezer Wenger
As a young girl, I had always wondered why Babushka never seemed to have much variety of food in her house. We would come to visit, and she had almost nothing to offer her grandchildren to eat.

By Mina Gordon
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