Do Jews Plant Flowers on Graves?

Chabad.org
Tammuz 6, 5772 · June 26, 2012
Editor's Note:

Dear readers,

Ever study a particular Torah text, only to think the idea seems to repeat itself?

I remember one such occasion as a yeshivah student.

We were studying a particularly difficult and lengthy chassidic text. I had asked my teacher/guide why three pages were spent saying what appeared to be the very same thing over and over again. He looked at me and smiled, "When the text seems to be repeating itself, it's a sign that you are studying it superficially. Learn it again, focus on the nuances, and you'll notice the profound manner in which this idea is developed." Sure enough, he was right.

And this lesson can be applied in so many areas of Jewish life: I just said these words of prayer yesterday . . . Another Seder . . . Didn't I hear this story before? . . .

When a prayer, mitzvah, or Torah idea begins to feel stale, it's helpful to ask if we've properly focused on that particular concept and thought about what it means to us at that moment. A good prayer is different from yesterday's. Even though I am saying the same words, my perspective and awareness have been honed. And taking a moment to pause, reflect and focus can bring new meaning and depth to any mitzvah.

Enjoy your read!

Yisroel Cotlar,
Responder for Ask the Rabbi @ Chabad.org


This Week's Features Printable Magazine
By Rea Bochner
Parshah: Chukat
Why is Moses denied entry into the Holy Land? Why does G‑d reject the only personal request of Moses to be recorded in the Bible?

By Mendel Kalmenson
If Moses was innocent of his generation's sin, why was it decreed that he share their fate?

By Yanki Tauber
All my rosy dreams of the fast track to success have long since dissipated, ground down by the realities of my sterile existence. The choices I made, the paths I didn't take, have landed me here.

By Elisha Greenbaum
At every step forward in our earthly, physical lives, through Torah study and observance of the mitzvahs, the waters of the soul become ever more pure, ever more holy.

By Tali Loewenthal
As we grow older, we learn to appreciate the beauty and vital necessity of friendship; in hindsight we discover that losing a friend over an inability to forgive is mere vanity.

By Lazer Gurkow
Laws of the red heifer, Moses hits the rock, Aaron dies, snakes abound, and the Jewish people triumph in battle.

Judaism 101
We are planning the unveiling for my mother. Is it ok to plant flowers on her gravesite?

By Eliezer Zalmanov
What's this mitzvah all about? Which utensils need to be immersed? Where? How? In what?

Women
With the timing of our words, we have the power to raise our loved ones up, or push them down still lower . . .

By Elana Mizrahi
We generally find that whatever is going on in our lives, whatever we are thinking about, is what we are apt to see.

By Sara Esther Crispe
Stories
For as long as anyone could remember, there was a clock mounted high up on the tallest building in the town. But times change. A murmur of discontent was heard . . .

By Chaya Sarah Silberberg
The KGB knew very well what a Tanya is. What plausible explanation could I give if it were detected? . . .

By Yerachmiel Tilles
Audio
Nigun Hisvaadus

Listen Listen (3:38)
Video
Mitzvah Boat is ready for a mitzvah adventure but he can't find Sarah and Avi. Can you help him find them?

By Dovid Taub
Watch Watch (6:41)
Is having three people a prerequisite for a "zimun" (invitation to recite Grace), or is it merely ideal?

By Mendel Kaplan
While devoting yourself to helping others, safeguard time for your own spiritual and emotional growth. Focus energy inward as well as outward.

By Chana Weisberg
Watch Watch (16:40)
Chabad.org Oldie
Why did the Creator have to "speak" in order to create? Wouldn't it be so much more wonderful if we were all just a thought?

By Tzvi Freeman
Follow Us:   Find Us On Facebook Follow Us on Twitter RSS Feeds

Featured Judaica:

Chabad Classics Vol 4
This CD is dedicated entirely to the melodious songs and hymns of the Jewish holidays from around the year.

Price: $14.95 SALE: $13.45


More from Chabad.org
Video
Women
News
Kids
Donate

Be a Part of it
Enjoyed this email? Please help us continue to share the study of Torah and Jewish traditions:

Dedicate or sponsor an email to mark a special occasion
Make a donation to chabad.org.

 

Subscription Options:
Subscribe to more chabad.org email lists
Subscription Management
Going on vacation?
Unsubscribe

Your subscribed email address is: iqlalsmile.cara@blogger.com
Change email address.

Important Tip:
To guarantee that your subscription emails continue to be delivered to you, please add subscriptions@chabad.org to your address book, or "whitelist" it in any filters or antispam programs you may have.

© Copyright Chabad.org, all rights reserved.   Privacy Policy