DAILY DOSE: More on How to Criticize

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More on How to Criticize
Sivan 29, 5772 · June 19, 2012

If this person you feel an urge to criticize is not yet your close friend, you'll need to spend some time with him. Find out everything that's good about him, and go out of your way to help him out. Eventually, a real friendship will develop

Also, you'll need to ensure that this person has the same knowledge, understanding and perspective of right and wrong as you do before you can attack his decisions. If he doesn't, you'll need to spend some time learning and discussing together until you see each other's point of view.

Once the two of you are in the same space in Torah and observance of mitzvot, and he's your good friend to boot, then it's okay to criticize—if necessary. And if you can remember what there was to criticize.


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Based on letters and talks of the Rebbe, Rabbi M. M. Schneerson    More articles...  |   RSS Listing of Newest Articles by this Author


From the wisdom of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, of righteous memory; words and condensation by Rabbi Tzvi Freeman. To order Rabbi Freeman's book, Bringing Heaven Down to Earth, click here.
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